Adding Elegance To Gothic Lolita

Many people consider any Lolita in black to be Gothic Lolita, while I personally feel that Gothic Lolita has to be a bit more... well, Gothic. I think that if you can replace the black parts of a dress with pastel pink strawberry covered print, and change all the black accessories to white and it turns out looking perfectly Sweet Lolita, than it was hardly ever Gothic Lolita in the first place. Don't get me wrong though, I love Kuro Lolita and Sweet Lolita in black colorways, I just wouldn't ever call it Gothic Lolita. So, why do black Lolita outfits tend to get lumped as Gothic Lolita simply because they aren't covered in pastel pink ponies? Maybe it's just because popular opinion says so, or maybe it's because not everyone is entirely familiar with Gothic styles outside of the Jfashion world, because, as any Goth worth their eyeliner will tell you "Just because it's black, doesn't mean it's Goth, but Goths don't only wear black." So in this post, which is a bit more personal opinion than Lolita law, I'll hopefully be giving some tips on how to make Gothic Lolita coordinates actually a bit Gothic.

What makes a Gothic Lolita outfit? If not simply the color black?
A lot of things make an outfit Gothic Lolita, and some of these things are very hard to pin point, as Gothic Lolita tends to be one of the more fluid and varied Lolita sub-styles, at times blending with Classic, Punk, or other non-Lolita Jfashions. If I were to try to describe exactly what makes it different, I would say the mood of the outfit. Good Gothic Lolita can manage to look gloomy, elegant, mysterious, and even a bit macabre all at the same time. If you want a bit more details, well, here's a handy bullet list!
  • Motifs- Crosses are the most common motif in Gothic Lolita, but chandeliers, crowns, spider webs, coffins, bats, flowers, and just about anything that is typically goth are used in Gothic Lolita coordinates, only a bit more elegantly than they are used in other fashions. You really wouldn't have a flaming neon pink skull or a naked woman riding a crucifix in a Gothic Lolita coordinate, but things like this are often printed on Jpunk clothes. On the other hand, you aren't going to be seeing any Egyptian motifs like you so often seen in Western Goth. So, sorry, were all going to have to leave our ankh necklaces behind :(
  • Fabric- An all black Gothic Lolita outfit will tend to rely on texture to make it stand out from other styles of Lolita. You will often see jacquard, brocade, tulle or lace overlays, good quality satins, and velvets much more in Gothic Lolita than you would in any other style of Lolita.
  • Details- Gothic Lolita dresses don't use prints or rows of lace as details as much as other styles. You will often see metal findings such as grommets, busks, or eye-hook closures used as functional decoration. Distressed details such as raw hems, artfully crafted rips and holes, overlapping prints, and other such things, are to be found in Gothic Lolita. Look to brands like Alice Auaa or h.NAOTO for distressed gothic pieces. Necklines in Gothic Lolita are also a bit lower than in other styles, the square neck being a very popular gothic style. And by lower necklines, I don't mean you're allowed to have half your boobs hanging out, that's still unacceptable.
  • Accessories- Accessorizing can sometimes be the key difference between Kuro Lolita and Gothic Lolita. Gothic Lolita headdresses are pretty much never bows, corsages being a popular choice, as well as Victorian styled bonnets. Mini top hats are also seen fairly often (worn correctly, and not straight out of the 50 cents bin at a craft store) but are really not all that popular a head choice because they tend to look very silly if you do it wrong. Victorian styled jewelery is a great addition as well, beaded chokers combined with a low neckline being one of the most elegant Gothic Lolita styles. Gloves, either short or opera length, lacy or otherwise are also seen more often. Purses are rarely ever shaped like adorable animals or cutesy shapes, but instead are often plain and black, or are sometimes bat or coffin shaped.
  • Shoes and socks- Below the knee socks are rarely ever seen with Gothic Lolita, as they make the outfit look much too childish. Instead, over-the-knees are seen most, if not simply opaque tights. Lacy black tights are also often seen, as well as funkier tights, such as diamond print, stripes, or sometimes even ripped up stockings. The old-school platform heeled mary jane, often with many buckles going up to the mid-calf, is a common Gothic Lolita shoe, but boots or a heel with a more pointed toe are also seen. The only kind of Lolita shoe that tends to look odd with Gothic Lolita are the more cutesy shoes with a sensible heel, such as Tea Party shoes.
  • Hair and makeup- Hair and makeup for Gothic Lolita is often very similar to other styles of Lolita. Makeup is still kept to a minimum, with maybe a little bit of a smokey eye and some tinted lips. Hair is pretty much the same as in other styles, except it is often found down more often. Pigtails, either braided or super hairsprayed, are not often worn because, like socks that fall below the knee, the look is usually too childish for Gothic Lolita.
I've dug around my Gothic & Lolita Bibles and other Lolita magazines and scrounged up some Gothic Lolita pictures (the best place to find them are in the street snaps!). These, in my personal opinion, are all pretty great examples of Gothic Lolita.


Other colors in Gothic Lolita
In the above examples, you'll notice that most of the coordinates are completely black, or black and white. While these are the most common colors in Gothic Lolita, there are many other colors to choose from. Deep jewel tones are a favorite, with blue possibly being the most common color, but burgundy, gold, and even greens and purples are seen as well. When using color with Gothic Lolita, you do have to be careful that the coordinate doesn't start slipping into Classic Lolita territory, as color can sometimes make it do.


Black x White Lolita vs. Gothic Lolita
Spot the differences!
Black and white seems to be the "traditional" Gothic Lolita color scheme, even more so than all black sometimes! But any old black and white coordinate really shouldn't be called Gothic Lolita. Take the two coordinates above for example, they really aren't similar at all, other than color scheme. The dress on the left wouldn't exactly pass the "pastel pink strawberry" test at all, because then it would merge perfectly with Sweet Lolita. The one on the right would look very strange if it was covered in strawberries. If you still can't spot the differences, here's a rundown of these two particular coordinates.
  • Material- The sweeter dress on the left is made out of plain cotton, while the more gothic dress is a textured jacquard or brocade like fabric.
  • Details- The sweeter dress is definitely much more decorated than the gothic one. It has rows and rows of lace, while the gothic one has a simple line of lace on the hem. And while the two dresses look similar at first glance, the sweeter one is actually a JSK with the chest covered in white lace ruffles, while the gothic one is either an underbust JSK or even a high-waisted skirt. They give the same appearance, a white area on the chest, but go about it in completely different ways.
  • Sleeves- The sweeter outfit has short puffy sleeves, while the more gothic one has long sleeves. While, obviously, both sleeve lengths are found in either style, short sleeves tend to make an outfit look much sweeter than long sleeves.
  • Headdress- The sweeter outfit uses a square headdress, and the gothic outfit uses a corsage headpiece with some sort of veil-ish netting on it.
  • Hair and makeup- The sweeter outfit has very natural makeup, or even none at all, and a pair of sweet braids, while the gothic outfit has slightly darker makeup, a smokey eye and a stained lip, while the hair is kept very long and straight.
  • Tights/socks- The sweeter outfit uses a pair of white socks with a cute lace-up design on them, making her look very childish, while the gothic outfit is wearing sold black tights, which make her look much more mature.
  • Shoes- At first, their shoes look very similar to each other, they're both platforms! But on a second glance, the sweeter outfit is wearing a simple pair of flat chunky platforms, while the gothic outfit is wearing heeled platforms that appear to have quite a few buckles on them and are even tied with a ribbon.
So does that mean to be a Gothic Lolita I can only wear wear Moitie, Atlier Pierrot, or Antique Beast? That stuff is nearly impossible to find and cost about a million dollars anyways!
Of course not! While many Gothic Lolita dresses are designed specifically for the style, just as many Sweet Lolita dresses can hardly ever be anything other than Sweet Lolita, you can make a great Gothic Lolita coordinate out of a plain black cotton JSK. It's sometimes just a matter of how you accessorize the dress.

Kuro Lolita vs. Gothic Lolita
On the left is a Kuro Lolita coordinate, and on the right is a Gothic Lolita using the exact same dress. With different accessories and an interesting blouse, it can easily turn into something very Gothic. The Kuro Lolita coordinate on the left is also a good example of a dress being black, but not necessarily Gothic Lolita.

Awesomely Bad Dresses

This recent post on WTF Burando had got me thinking about all the awesomely bad Lolita dresses that I love. Sometimes a Lolita dress is just so tacky that you can't help but love it! Some of these might not be strictly Lolita, but they've all appeared either a Lolita publication or in a Lolita shop.



Why it's awful- It looks like it's made completely out of organza, it's got great big bell sleeves that make her look like a big organza ball, her extra floofy bloomers seem to be sticking out a good 6 inches, and she has a very large and floppy bonnet, probably also made out of organza.
Why I love it- Metamorphose has made quite a few of these lace (or organza) monster dresses in the past, and when I first got into Lolita is when they first started making them, so for a time something like this was a big deal. I get all warm and fuzzy and nostalgic when I see something like this. I want it, to impress 17 year old me.


Why it's awful- Arm warmers, WTF is going on around her neck area, and inexplicable fringed bloomers that are practically pants.
Why I love it- I have no idea. It just looks like fun. And maybe because without the bloomers it would be pretty, but dammit, the bloomers are the best part!


Why it's awful- It's old lady makeup.
Why I love it- But she's such a pretty old lady!


Why it's awful- It's super short, made out of what looks like stretch velvet, she's wearing sheer tights, and it's topped with a very infantile bonnet. It looks like a cheap western Goth decided to try Lolita after only hearing about it briefly.
Why I love it- Maybe it's because she's holding that crucifix, but it's just so uber-goth. It's so tacky 90's Goth that I just love it.


Why it's awful- It's minty blue/green and black, covered in crap, and it looks like something a clown would wear.
Why I love it- It looks like something a clown would wear : D


Why it's awful- It's a hot mess and it makes my eyes bleed just looking at it. It has stupid little peasant blouse half sleeves.
Why I love it- It's pink and black and just looks like a whole lot of fun!


Why it's awful- It's made out of PVC, it's a tube top, and has cheap crosses along the bottom.
Why I love it- It looks like some of the super tacky stuff Mana used to wear, and I would have loved that. Plus, for some reason I've had the urge to get a PVC Lolita piece, if I did it would be something like this.



Why it's awful- She looks like Santa Clause.
Why I love it- I love Santa Clause!

Well, that's a few pieces off my awesomely bad dresses list! I've got a few more in mind but I've got to hunt down some scans. If you're interested in more Lolita of questionable taste, check out the LJ community, WTF Burando. What awful dresses would you like to have hiding in the back of your closet?

Boystyle: Wearing the Pants in Lolita Fashion

Boystyle is exactly what it sounds like, the boy's version of Lolita. Just like how the frilly dresses of Lolita isn't always a girls only game, Boystyle isn't just for boys. Boystyle has nearly as many different sub-styles as Lolita, and is often considered a completely separate fashion from Lolita. But Lolita's just love the Boystyle, we can't help it, it's just so cute. And because of that, I'll be going over some of the basics in this post.

Before I begin, I should point out that I'm not exactly a Boystyle expert, I haven't even worn pants outside of work since 2003, so maybe this should have been left to someone a little more in the know than I am. I do know quite a bit about it just from being part of the Lolita community for so long, but if I am totally off-the-wall incorrect about any of this, feel free to point it out to me.


What makes a Boystyle outfit
  • Pants- The most important part of a Boystyle outfit. There are a variety of different kinds of pants to choose from in Boystyle: Formal men's pants, ultra wide-legged pants, puffy shorts (I always want to call these "pumpkin shorts" because of Poupee!) knickerbockers, and even split shorts attached to leg warmers, or pants with attached half skirts for the more punk styles. The one kind of pants I would stay away from in the Boystyle world is jeans. A pair of plain black jeans with no holes or fading is okay, but that's really about it when it comes to jeans.
  • Socks/Tights- An important addition to the Boystyle look is socks or tights! A black and white striped pair is the classic look, but just about any matching pair, in a solid color or a print, will look good.
  • Headwear- Headwear is not as essential to Boystyle as it is Lolita for completing a look. Instead of bows, flowers, and ruffles of lace, the perfect Boystyle headwear is a full-sized hat. A top hat is always classic, but bowler hats and newsboy caps also look good. Avoid mini-top hats if you're wearing Aristocrat, save them for Kodona or a more childish look.
  • Vest- A plain vest is the perfect addition to a Boystyle outfit, worn either with just a blouse, or under a jacket. If you're looking to add some color to a Boystyle outfit, a vest in whatever color you would like is the perfect way to do it.
  • Jacket- Not always necessary, but it can complete an outfit. A fancy jacket over a vest and a blouse always looks smart. You can find fancy jackets anywhere, but if you really want your outfit to look different (and to avoid the butler look) you might want to look into a Japanese brand such as Black Peace Now or Atelier Boz for a very unique looking jacket.
  • Shoes- A clunky pair of gothic looking shoes is the perfect Boystyle shoe. Boots look great too, either knee boots, or mid-calf. If you plan on wearing long pants then any kind of formal men's style shoe will do. But you really can't just wear any old Lolita pair of shoes with Boystyle, certainly not your handy Tea Parties, as they are much too cute. Also avoid any kind of shoe with a pointy heel, as you might end up looking more foppish and less Dandy.
  • Accessories- Boystyle is less accessory driven than Lolita. All you really need to accessorize a Boystyle outfit is a fancy necktie, a brooch, a few gothic rings, and maybe a rose tucked into your hat band. Pick one or two of those and you're all set. And maybe carry a cane if you really want to look stylish.
If you already have a full Lolita wardrobe, especially if you have a lot of Gothic Lolita pieces, all you really need to add to it to have a few Boystyle outfits on hand are a few pairs of proper pants and vests, and to make sure you have a pair of shoes to match. The best part about adding some Boystyle to your wardrobe is that you can find these things offbrand very easily, and cheaply! Most Lolita blouses will work beautifully with Boystyle.

The different styles of Boystyle
There are quite a few different sub-styles of Boystyle, and there is, as always, a lot of overlap, but I'll be going over the basics in this post. While Lolita's different sub-styles are often based on things like color schemes and motifs, Boystyle's sub-styles are usually based on things like pant length and general "age" of the outfit.

Aristocrat
Boystyle Aristocrat is very similar to the female version of Aristocrat. It is a very Victorian Gothic style, nearly always done in black, with long jackets, frilly blouses, and minimal decoration. In Aristocrat, blouses are often high-necked, or with a pointed collar, and frequently are decorated with a jabot. Rounded Peter Pan collars are rarely ever seen in Aristocrat. Instead of the full skirts in the female version of the style, Boystyle Aristocrats tend to wear either straight legged formal men's pants, or those very wide legged pants that almost look like skirts. I have no idea what those pants are called. Sometimes the Aristocrat's pants are covered up entirely by a very long, almost priestly, jacket much like the one in this picture.

Dandy
Dandy is a Boystyle that involves dressing like a little prince. I thiiiink this style is also called Ouijisama, I usually don't use the Japanese names for fashions, so don't quote me on that! Short pants, tights, a pair of clunky shoes (usually not boots), and a vest worn over a frilly blouse (leave the jacket at home) are the Dandy basics. Dandy tends to be a little more frilly or decorated than Aristocrat. Peter Pan collars are okay, big floppy bows usually replace jabots, but sometimes those rounded Lolita ties are seen instead. Pants are often just above the knee, or just below the knee. They are usually either a pair of puffy knickerbockers or a pair with a cuff.

Kodona
Kodona is the most childish of the Boystyles. It is very similar to Dandy, in that it is much fancier than Aristocrat and uses shorter pants, but, as you can see, it's very child-like. Mismatched socks, suspenders, loud prints and colors are what sets Kodona apart from Dandy. Boots are also seen with this style much more than in Dandy, often the mid-calf boot.

While these three tend to be the main sub-styles of Boystyle, there are a few different looks to Boystyle. While on their own, something like Punk or Gothic isn't necessarily Boystyle, it is a look that Boystyle can take on. These are, of course, Japanese versions of Punk and Gothic, which are quite different from their Western versions.

Boystyle x Punk


Boystyle x Gothic



Things to avoid when putting together a Boystyle outfit
I think the most important thing to avoid while dressing Boystyle is to try not to look like a butler or like you're taking someone to prom. I know it sounds silly, but I've seen this happen several times. Men's formal wear does not Boystyle make. Sometimes the line is a blurry one, especially with the more Aristocratic styles. It's really all in the details, a funky shaped toe to your shoes, a Victorian cut to your jacket, a big floppy tie, raw edges on your shirt, these things will all help you look like you're not just there to take people's coats. If you honestly don't think you can pull off a look that doesn't make people want to call you Jeeves, stick with the more childish or punk sub-styles of Boystyle.

On the other hand, you don't want to look you just came out of a Visual Kei bondage themed music video. Jrock cosplay does not Boystyle make either.

Another thing to watch out for when wearing Boystyle are lengths. Boystyle has a lot of odd lengths (long jackets, short pants, long socks, tall boots) and you can end up looking very unbalanced if you just throw on a random assortment of pieces. There really aren't any strict rules about lengths, and it usually takes some trial and error to find out what looks best on you. But there are a few things I would avoid, such as wearing pants that stop just above the knee with boots or socks that end just below the knee, matching very short pants with knee socks, wearing a jacket that's much longer than your pants, or having the top of your boots stop somewhere under your short pants. Basically, you don't want to leave large patches of skin uncovered, awkward little slivers of skin, or too much overlapping, simply because these things tend to look awkward.

Boystyle Inspiration
If you're looking for some Boystyle inspiration, check out the LJ community Teddyboys, or the blog Prince Des Enfers!
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